Roll the Dice

May 28, 2021May 27, 2021 / Mark Brady / 2 Comments

The title of this blog post, “Roll the Dice” is a phrase that comes from gambling. A similar phrase is, “Let the chips fall where they may.” Both of these phrases were spoken to me today by a believer in God. I shared with my friend, who said them, “I don’t like either phrase.” He replied, “Why not?”

I know he meant well, but he was talking about a situation that he does have authority over, because God gave it to him. You see, when you are walking in the will of God, and He places you in a position that He wants you to have, and you pray giving the situation over to God, to be God in, then it is not up to “chance”!

Things will not fall where they may, or be decided by the roll of dice, or by any half hazard means of chance, but will work out for good for those who love God. This brings glory to God. His word says so.

^“And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose,” Rom. 8:28 (NET)

This verse is well known, so why don’t those who know it, believe it? And better yet, why don’t they live according to that knowledge? It’s powerful! Its life changing, and situation changing as well.

So the next time you are in a pickle, or dealing with a difficult situation, pray! Give it to God! Then walk with your head up, knowing, and trusting God has heard you and that it will work out just the way He wants it to in order to do a good and perfect work in the lives of all who are involved.

“Amen!” Now that’s good preaching if I do say so myself. Where’s the offering plate? This message is worthy of an offering!

The Rules of the Game

May 25, 2021May 25, 2021 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Starting with the Banker, each player in turn throws the dice. The player with the highest total starts the play. Place your token on the corner marked “GO”, then throw the dice and move your token (in the direction of the arrow) the number of spaces indicated by the dice…..

You buy a new game and you can’t wait to play it, but in reality, you don’t know how, because you don’t know the rules. Reading the rules takes time and can be kind-of, should we say, boring? We just want to start playing. And have you noticed? There always seems to be that one person who volunteers to read the rules and then proceeds to tell the others their interpretation of what they know?

Rules are very specific, or should be. They are important. They can help protect you, if you and everyone else will follow them. Like when driving. When it comes to God, mankind, has come up with his own set of rules. I mentioned a few weeks ago there are over 4000 religions. That’s a lot! Which one is right? Could they “all” be wrong? Probably.

God wrote his own, not “rules” to live by, but the kind of relationship you should desire to have with him. In his Word, He makes it very clear, that the only way to him is by accepting that Jesus is his son and died on the cross to forgive you of your sins, wrong doings, and we have all done something wrong.

You see, God is Holy and cannot be in the presence of sin. That is why he gave his own son to die for us, which makes us clean again. Then He can be with us and we can be with him. No “rules” just relationship. It’s so simple, but mankind has a hard time with that. He thinks it sounds too good to be true, but when it comes to God, it is true, and it sets us free. Mankind complicates it. It is so simple I understood it at the age of 7.

Satan knows how God designed things, and he knows he’s not going to win, but he still tries so hard to get mankind to loose with him. He either gets them to write their own rules by telling them God didn’t mean what He said, or he accuses others of cheating and tries to make them feel bad about themselves.

Read God’s Word. Learn about the relationship that God has wanted from the very beginning with mankind. Doing so will give you the authority to tell the devil to, “shut up!” Playing, or living I should say, this way will cause you to win in the end, because life is no game.

222

May 21, 2021May 21, 2021 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Just three little numbers, right? Yeah, I thought so too the first time I noticed them. That was the number of my room at the Chiara Center in Springfield, IL. Chiara is, “Grounded in the spirit of Saints Francis and Clare of Assisi, Chiara Center offers a peaceful, inspirational setting for individuals, couples and groups who seek Christ’s healing presence.” I stayed there for a couple of days, about a month after my father passed away, three years ago.

I did indeed find peaceful solitude and had some great moments with God. Most people there take on a vow of silence while on the grounds. I like to talk, so that was difficult for me to abide by, but in the long run, helped me.

After leaving Chiara, I slowly started noticing the number “222” popping up in all kinds of places. It was so odd that I begin searching out, why, and what does it mean? A friend helped me learn it meant “New Beginnings”. Four months later I met my Filipino wife April. That certainly was a new beginning, perhaps that is what God had in mind all along. Then I wound up moving to the Philippines and living there for seven months. Living in a foreign country was new to me. Could that be it? But I kept seeing the number, even after these big events took place.

I saw the number everywhere, and almost all the time, as addresses, on the clock, house numbers, as part of phone numbers, and even “order” numbers.

Then recently, my wife and I were invited to go to a lakeside resort, about an hour from our house, to pray with the team restarting the lodge, and creating a new ministry. We arrived and fell in love with the place, and the location. The lodge is close to where my father and I used to catch a lot of fish. We listened to their vision over dinner and then went to our room and continued to pray, seek God. We caught a hold of a vision of one way the place could be utilized. The idea caught on and sparked further discussion by others. At the end of the meeting, Saturday morning, we were excited about what all God wanted and could do at this location.

We stayed a second night with our neighbors, the host of the meeting and the cooks. While sitting around a bon fire and April eating her first S’more, hearts and past experiences were shared. Something started to grow inside April and me. That next week we found ourselves back out to the lodge to take pictures for social media. We were now volunteering. To make things easier for us, we were given a room where we could leave some things and not have to pack everything, every time we went there.

Yep, you have probably guessed by now, our room key was to room “222”. Tears swelled up in my eyes, and my heart flooded with joy. This was what God was bringing April and me to, all along. We are so excited, to now be a part of the ministry that will be happening here. Lives will be changed. Souls will be added to the kingdom of God. Hearts will be reunited with others and with God. Callings will take place here, and others will be strengthened. The tired will find rest, and then the strength to go on.

As April and I begin our lives together and after we were married there were a few times when it almost all ended, and it felt like heaven and hell were warring, one side trying to keep us together, and the other side trying to pull us apart. It was at those times, after the heat would die down, I would look at April and say, “Ya know, God must have something big for us to be a part of, because the devil is working really hard to tear us apart!”

Turns out, I was right, and we are so thankful God worked so hard to help us get to the day we found out that “222” was for this new beginning.

“God is Good”

May 18, 2021May 18, 2021 / Mark Brady / 2 Comments

Every time a friend of mine hears that statement he responds, “All the time!” And you know what? He’s right. “Good” is part of God’s nature. He can’t help himself but be good. When I was in Africa I learned, they also respond in the same way.

Why is it important to remember this part of God’s nature? Because we live in a world that tries to tell us who and what God is, yet they don’t even know him. Some have never even made his acquaintance.

“Pinpointing precisely how many religions there are in the world today is next to impossible, although some estimate the number exceeds four thousand. The vast majority of those faiths are contained within a handful of major religious groups.” (By Mary Fairchild, updated 03/22/21)

It’s this kind of “I know how to get to God” that has caused mankind to create over four thousand “religions”. What is a religion? In a nut shell, its man’s way to God, but technically;

“Religion can briefly be defined as a specific belief system about God or gods expressed through a code of conduct, ethics, forms of worship, and rituals. Religion includes social, ethical, and ceremonial elements combined with the belief in an unseen world and often a deity.”
Mary Fairchild

This is why it is important to know and accept “God’s way to man”, which is through “relationship”. It is through his son, Jesus. By accepting that He is God’s son and asking him to forgive you of your sins, wrong doing, and then inviting him to live and dwell in your heart. All that means is live like Jesus did.

To love on people like Jesus did. To value, and spend time with people like Jesus did. To walk with them in life and show them there is a better way to live. That, it is possible to have life, now on earth and to have it abundantly!

God is good, and in recent days He has shown himself extra good to my wife and me. He has lead us to a ministry that we are excited about, and we are getting in on the ground floor. But even in the valleys, and the days seem so dark, and so long, God is still good. It’s in those days we have to lean in a little closer to him, and ask him for help. To get to your destination you have to travel. Some journeys take you through some pretty rough neighborhoods, over rough terrain, or stormy seas, but none of that diminishes God’s goodness.

Graffiti

May 14, 2021May 14, 2021 / Mark Brady / 2 Comments

I was driving my wife, April around downtown Tulsa the other day. It was her first tour of the big city. We went under a bridge and as in most urban areas, there was graffiti painted on the sides. There was also a couple of buildings with it as well. One building’s graffiti has become a little famous, but it’s nothing compared to the “Gum Wall” in Seattle, Washington.

A couple of days later, while I was having a moment with God, I heard the Holy Spirit whisper, “What kind of graffiti have you allowed to be written on the walls of your heart?” Ouch!

I began to think about the messages I see, hear, and the stuff that shows up on TV. Those messages affect us more than we realize they do. For example, we may start accepting the lifestyle as okay, or normal that some choose to live that God calls sin. We will always love the individual, but never the sin in their life. That’s God’s approach. We might chose to stay quiet instead of calling it out for what it is, “destructive lifestyles”, or accepting Satan’s substitute for what God has for us.

I realize now, I need to wash the walls of my heart from time to time. To get the, what some may call, “expressive freedom” removed and put things back to having only the words of God written there.

Proverbs 7:3, talks about writing God’s words upon the walls of your heart:

“…etch it on the chambers of your heart.”

We are also instructed to guard our hearts. Why all this care about our hearts? Because what is in our hearts is what we believe to be true, and that belief comes out of our mouths.

The Unexpected Sermon

May 11, 2021May 10, 2021 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

“It’s okay. It’s all in the past,” said my great niece as she waved her hands back and forth down low by her side. She had gotten caught doing something that turned out okay, but would not had been sanctioned by either of her parents.

We laughed as my mother shared the story of the incident with my wife and me, but later in the week my wife quoted my great niece after doing something I did not appreciate. Yes it’s true, I’m a recovering control freak, and I always argue that I like things done a certain way, because to me it seems like the fastest and easiest way to accomplish that task. I know, there are many ways to doing some things, and there are times when someone would rather do it their way.

It may seem silly, but my four year old great niece preached with conviction a sermon I needed to hear, but more than that, live out! I have spent the last several days practicing to let things go and not to mention that my wife may have done or said something that turned out okay, but not something I would have done. And you know what? Our marriage is better for it!

In those times when we mess up, do things that God would rather we hadn’t, and we go to him and ask for forgiveness, he always says, “Its okay. You’re forgiven. It’s now in the past.”

God makes everything come out right;
    he puts victims back on their feet.
He showed Moses how he went about his work,
    opened up his plans to all Israel.
God is sheer mercy and grace;
    not easily angered, he’s rich in love.
He doesn’t endlessly nag and scold,
    nor hold grudges forever.
He doesn’t treat us as our sins deserve,
    nor pay us back in full for our wrongs.
As high as heaven is over the earth,
    so strong is his love to those who fear him.
And as far as sunrise is from sunset,
    he has separated us from our sins.
As parents feel for their children,
    God feels for those who fear him.
He knows us inside and out,
    keeps in mind that we’re made of mud.
Men and women don’t live very long;
    like wildflowers they spring up and blossom,
But a storm snuffs them out just as quickly,
    leaving nothing to show they were here.
God’s love, though, is ever and always,
    eternally present to all who fear him,
Making everything right for them and their children
    as they follow his Covenant ways
    and remember to do whatever he said. (Psalms 103:6-18 MSG)

Forgiveness is not a license to go sin more, or even again, but it lifts the burden of guilt off of us, and allows us to go on, living life in peace.

God Day

May 7, 2021May 5, 2021 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Okay, I do realize that this coming Sunday is Mother’s Day, but at the time of this writing it is the anniversary of my father’s death, so I was thinking about him as well. Then a thought came flying down the big brain bypass. I say “big brain” not because I am smart, but because I am always thinking. The thought was, “What would God want for “God Day”?

Pastor Robert Morris says, “To find Biblical answers, you must look in the Bible.”

“I call Heaven and Earth to witness against you today: I place before you Life and Death, Blessing and Curse. Choose life so that you and your children will live. And love God, your God, listening obediently to him, firmly embracing him. Oh yes, he is life itself, a long life settled on the soil that God, your God, promised to give your ancestors, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.”
Deu. 30:19-20 MSG.

God wants you to have life now and for eternity. He wants to talk, yes talk to you. He has a lot to say. He created man in the first place to have someone who would choose to love him back by their own doing. He wants to have a great relationship with you. He hopes you will choose him, which is choosing life.

God is amazing. He made us, therefore we belonged to him, but He gave us the freedom to choose to love him. Then, after Adam and Eve sinned and mankind was doomed to eternal death, God gave us his only son to die a brutal death on a cross that purchased us back to God. But then He did the most unselfish thing one could do afterwards, He gave us that freewill again to decide for ourselves if we want to love him.

God wants us to have a life full of the fruit of the spirit. You know, love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. That means, no one can police them, regulate them, market them, or stop them, but all mankind can profit from them.

Don’t you see? God wants nothing but good for you, but the only thing He wants from you, is your heart. I hope you have already given it to him, or you will, soon, perhaps even today.

Be Like God

May 4, 2021May 3, 2021 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Most of her life she heard, “You’re so stupid.” “You can’t do anything right.” “You’ll never amount to anything.” “Why can’t you get this? It’s not hard.” She heard messages that she wasn’t good enough and that she never would be. One negative message after another, and the worst thing happened…she believed them.

Thirty some years later, after thinking that life was just okay, and it couldn’t get any better, because she was taught not to expect anything special, it happened. She moved away from those she loved, and into the arms of man, who loved her, but more importantly, loved God. After a while he recognized her insecurities, but he knew how to reverse the years of damage and pain done to her.

He begin being gentle with his deeds, and especially with his words. He had to make sure he didn’t expect perfection out of every task, as he had been raised to. He needed to find the capacity to let her do things her way, and then to compliment her on a job well done. She needed to know he trusted her, and believed in her. He had to speak love to her and to speak life. He would hide notes and things around the house for her to find that reinforced what he was verbally telling her.

Words kill, words give life; they’re either poison or fruit—you choose. (Prov. 18:21 MSG)

Kind words heal and help; cutting words wound and maim. (Prov. 15:4 MSG)

Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out. (Col. 4:6 MSG)

Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift. (Eph. 4:29 MSG)

Over time, because he will be like God to her (and not “a god” over her) she will heal. Her mind will be cleansed of all of those negative comments. Each day, she will grow in confidence. She will soon stand up straight and hold her head up high. She will begin to believe that she is a child of the most high God and that He loves her, and she will start acting like she knows it. She will seek out God’s plan and design for her life and purse it with strong conviction. One day she will be God, or be like God to someone else who is currently walking where she once did.

brady, mark a.

Words to inspire you

Month: May 2021