giving up

An empty chair near a window with sunlight casting warm shadows — Image generated via AI.

At the time of this writing, we just celebrated Easter last weekend. One of the songs we sang mentioned Friday and Jesus’ dying. Even he himself said, “It is finished.” One would think if Jesus said it, then it must really be over. But what about that coming back to life after three days part he used to talk about? It must have been difficult to wait and see if he was telling the truth or just dreaming.

What are you waiting to see what God will do? Lead you to a job or your spouse? Tell you what the next chapter in your life is? Or perhaps heal you? Maybe it’s to provide finances to help you pay a bill. I’m sure whatever it is, it’s difficult to wait. I have a close friend who is and has been waiting for several weeks to get results concerning an issue in his body. I think it is taking a toll on him, even though he portrays faith and bravery.

What is worse, I think, is knowing that God has spoken something, but it has not yet come to pass. I used to ask God, “When will I get married?” All He ever said in reply was, “Soon.” “That’s great! Thanks, God. I’ll put that on the calendar!” According to his watch, I guess it was.

Jesus died on Friday. Saturday must have seemed so dark. Perhaps even hopeless. I believe some of his disciples went back to their old way of life as an answer to the question, “Now what?” You may be on Saturday, in your waiting for an answer from God. Don’t go anywhere. Don’t try to figure out his timing, and for sure don’t take his silence as an answer. Just keep praying, keep asking, and keep believing that He loves you and will take care of you. There is nothing that you can do to force his hand or to speed things up. As if putting an extra $20.00 in the offering plate is going to impress God.

Sitting in the waiting room is hard. If you let the devil play with your mind, fear, worry, dread, and other bad thoughts can creep in. Don’t let them. Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7 (NIV) Who wins the battle in your mind, while you are waiting, is key to the victory. You learn a lot about God in the waiting and about yourself. One thing I have learned in life is this: every trial has an end. You just need to make sure that when that day comes, you are still holding the hand of Jesus.

Last week, I mentioned crying out to God, but today I want to share a little more about prayer. Oh, and “Naked Prayer” is bearing your soul to God, so there is nothing left unseen. He knows it anyway, but it’s as if He wants you to reveal it and give, or surrender it to him, like a child, who doesn’t know to hide their heart truth.

In John 10:10, where it says, “Satan comes to steal, kill, and destroy…” the Greek word for “kill” doesn’t mean, “take your life”, but it actually indicates you “giving your life, or surrendering something to the devil.” That means you give up hope. It indicates you are giving up on God, and when you are convinced God is not going to answer your prayer then Satan can sweep in and gain a stronghold into your life.

“Prayers don’t expire,” says Robert Madu

Your prayers don’t have an expiration date on them, or have a statute of limitations with God. He can answer your prayer anytime He wants to, and He knows when the answer will work out best for you. Also, there could be a good reason, to God, for not answering your prayer, and that is when faith is the most difficult.

A miracle, is still a miracle, no matter how long it takes.

Perhaps God knew if he answered a couple of my prayers before now, I would not have meditated on this subject and have written these words to hopefully help you, or encourage you. The truth is; I don’t know, but that is where my faith and trust in him comes into play. I am confident that God knows best, He has heard me, and will work in my life, and through my life, regardless of an answer to my request. For that I say, “Thank you, God, and thank you for loving me.”