How Many Times do I Have to Say It?

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I did a favor for someone recently. The recipient acted as if they didn’t even notice. They never said, “Thank you.” That bothered me–a lot. So, after a few days, I asked them about the situation. I asked them, “Why didn’t you say thank you?” Their reply shocked me. They responded by asking, “How many times do I have to say it?”

I wanted to say, “How about 70 times 7?” That was Jesus’ response, though to a question about how many times to forgive someone. I couldn’t let it go. I wondered, does this person treat everyone like this? What about “Love thy neighbor?” Would you treat your neighbor that way? They do you a favor, and you don’t even acknowledge it?

The second part of the command to love thy neighbor is to love them as you love yourself. Well, what if a person doesn’t really love themselves? Does that hinder them in saying, “Thank you?” Because they don’t have a heart of gratitude? That would be a problem.

  • Perhaps they aren’t grateful for what Jesus did for them on the cross.
  • Maybe the issue is that they have done something they can’t forgive themselves for.
  • It could be something that happened to them by someone else, but they blame themselves.
  • Maybe they don’t feel they are worthy of forgiveness.

Whatever it is, it hinders them from having a heart of gratitude and, therefore, being grateful when others do something for them. I pray for them. I pray that whatever is hurting them, hindering them from having a heart of God, a heart of love, would be healed. That they would be able to say, “Thank you” whenever someone does something for them.

The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”
Mat. 12:31 (NIV)

Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

Oversized Loads

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You’ve seen them. The trucks going down the highway with the signs, flags, flashing lights, and usually with a pilot car, all of which inform you that an oversized load is coming. You stare, trying your best to figure out what it is.

Have you ever thought about the one driving the load down the road? He’s not doing it alone. He has a team not only with him but also several behind the scenes who charted a route that can be safely navigated by everyone.


What Counts as an Oversized Load?

Are you hauling an oversized load in life right now? Does it exceed the limits of normal life? Is it more than you can bear? Are you trying to do it alone? Can others tell? Are they looking at you and wondering what it is?

An oversized load is anything in life that you find difficult or challenging to manage. The size of the load varies person by person. Don’t allow anyone to tell you, “Ah, that’s nothing. You should be able to deal with it.” Because the truth is, no, you can’t. If you were, you wouldn’t feel weighted down, and it wouldn’t consume your thought life.


Why Oversized Loads Require Special Attention

Oversized loads shouldn’t be ignored. They can be difficult to maneuver. Usually, they cause you to go through life more slowly, and other normal matters and issues can get put on the side of the road. At times, that might include people. You want to make sure that what you are carrying at the moment doesn’t hurt you or anyone else, for that matter.


Best Practices for Hauling Oversized Loads

When you feel yourself getting weighed down, here are some things to remember until the load is gone.

  • Don’t try to carry this alone.
  • Talk to someone, a friend, a counselor, or your minister.
  • Lean into your faith in God and definitely ask him to help you, and be confident that He will, even when the load seems overwhelming.
  • Recall the words of Jesus:

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matt. 11:28-30 (MSG)

Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

Where’s the Beef? Finding Substance in a World of Spiritual Fast Food vs. Soul Food

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The question “Where’s the beef?” started as a joke, but it’s become a surprisingly sharp spiritual mirror. In a world full of noise, slogans, and surface‑level inspiration, it’s fair to ask whether the things we consume—mentally, emotionally, spiritually—actually nourish us.

Because let’s be honest: a lot of what passes for “spirituality” today is like a beautifully wrapped burger with almost nothing inside. It looks good, it photographs well, it might even go viral, but when you bite into it… there’s not much there.

So the question becomes: Where’s the substance? Where’s the depth? Where’s the nourishment for the soul?

The Hunger Beneath the Question

When someone asks, “Where’s the beef?” spiritually, they’re really saying:

  • I want something real
  • I want something that changes me
  • I want something that feeds the parts of me I don’t show the world
  • I want truth, not just aesthetics

That hunger is ancient. Every tradition, every culture, every seeker has felt it. It’s the inner tug that says, there must be more than this.

The Illusion of Fullness

Modern spirituality often gives us:

  • Pretty quotes without practice
  • Rituals without meaning
  • Community without connection
  • “Love and light” without honesty
  • Positivity that avoids pain instead of healing it

It’s like eating cotton candy when what you really need is a meal. Sweet, colorful, fun—but it dissolves the moment you touch it.

The Real Beef: Depth, Practice, Presence

Substance shows up in quieter places:

  • In the discipline of showing up for yourself when no one is watching
  • In the courage to face your own shadows
  • In the humility to admit you don’t have all the answers
  • In the stillness where you finally hear your own soul speak
  • In the compassion that costs you something

Spiritual “beef” isn’t flashy. It’s not always Instagrammable. It’s the slow-cooked stuff—patience, integrity, forgiveness, truth-telling, inner work. It’s the meal that actually fills you.

How to Tell If Something Has Substance

  • Does it make you more grounded?
  • Does it make you more honest?
  • Does it make you more compassionate?
  • Does it help you grow, not just feel good?
  • Does it stay with you after the moment passes?

If the answer is yes, you’ve found something worth keeping.

The Spiritual Twist: The Beef Might Be Inside You

Here’s the part people don’t always want to hear:
Sometimes the question isn’t “Where’s the beef out there?”
It’s “Where’s the beef in me?”

Am I showing up with depth?
Am I living what I say I believe?
Am I nourishing others, or just decorating my life with spiritual language?
Am I feeding my soul, or just scrolling for inspiration?

The real substance often comes from the quiet, unglamorous work of becoming who God wants you to be. Do individuals see substance in me? Do they see the calm they desire but find it out of reach? Do they see God?

So… Where’s the Beef?

It’s in the spiritual practices that stretch you.
It’s in the truths of God’s word that challenge you.
It’s in the moments that humble you.
It’s in the love for others that costs you something.
It’s in the courage to be real in a world obsessed with appearances.

And most of all, it’s in the part of you that refuses to settle for a life that looks full but feels empty. Spending time with God is where the beef really is. Talking to him daily in real conversations. Sharing with him your concerns and your needs, even though He already knows them.

Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

Price Check!

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It’s a phrase we usually hear echoing through a grocery store, a tiny interruption in the hum of everyday life. Someone at the register pauses, lifts an item, and calls out for clarity. “What’s the cost of this thing I’m about to take home?”

But lately, I’ve been thinking about how often we move through our days without doing our own internal price checks. We pick up habits, commitments, relationships, beliefs, and expectations the way we toss items into a shopping cart—quickly, automatically, sometimes because they were on the endcap display of our culture or upbringing. And only later do we realize we never asked the most important question:

What is this costing me?

The spiritual “receipt” we rarely look at.

Every choice has a price, not in a punitive way, but in a simple, energetic exchange.

  • Peace has a price.
  • Growth has a price.
  • Avoidance has a price.
  • Authenticity has a price.
  • Even joy has a price—usually the willingness to be present enough to notice it.

The trouble is, we often pay without noticing the transaction. We trade our time for approval. We trade our boundaries for temporary comfort. We trade our intuition for someone else’s expectations. And then we wonder why we feel spiritually overdrawn.

Take a moment and imagine your life as a checkout lane. Everything you’ve said yes to—every role, every responsibility, every belief—sits on the conveyor belt.

If a cosmic cashier held up each one and asked, “Price check!”, what would you say?

  • That grudge you’ve been carrying—what’s it costing you?
  • That dream you keep postponing—what’s the price of waiting?
  • That version of yourself you’ve outgrown—how much energy does it drain to keep wearing it?
  • That peace you crave—what small, brave choices would it require?

Sometimes the price is worth it. Sometimes it’s not. The point isn’t to judge yourself. The point is to notice.

When you start doing regular price checks, something shifts.
You stop sleepwalking through your choices.
You stop paying for things you don’t actually want.
You stop assuming everything in your cart belongs to you.

You begin to ask:
Is this aligned with who God is shaping me to be?
Is this nourishing my soul or depleting it?
Is this what God wants for me?

And the beautiful thing is, you can always put something back.
You can always choose differently.
You can always walk out of the store lighter than you walked in.

Here’s the quiet truth:
Your life is the sum of what you’re willing to pay. Can you afford it? Will you eventually have to get a loan from God? Or have him wipe out the debt via his Son, Jesus? This is not something to rush by or to take lightly.

So the next time you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or spiritually cluttered, pause for a moment. Lift the thought, the habit, the relationship, the belief—and whisper to yourself: Price check.

Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

Are You Salty?

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The story of Lot’s wife, though brief, is one of the most sobering moments in Scripture. Found in Genesis 19 and later referenced by Jesus in Luke 17:32 with the simple but piercing command, “Remember Lot’s wife,” her fate stands as a warning that transcends time and culture.


A Brief Look at the Story

Lot and his family were living in Sodom, a city steeped in corruption and moral decay. God, in His mercy, sent angels to rescue them before judgment fell. The instructions were clear: “Flee for your lives! Don’t look back.”

Yet, as they escaped, Lot’s wife looked back—and instantly became a pillar of salt. The text doesn’t tell us her name, but her action speaks volumes. That backward glance wasn’t just curiosity—it revealed a heart still tethered to what God was calling her to leave behind.


Why Did She Look Back?

Her glance was more than a physical act; it was a spiritual one. It suggested:

  • Attachment to the past – She couldn’t fully let go of the life, possessions, and relationships she had in Sodom.
  • Distrust in God’s plan – Looking back implied doubt that what lay ahead could be better than what she was leaving.
  • Divided loyalty – Her heart was split between obedience to God and longing for the world she knew.

The Warning for Us Today

Jesus’ reminder to “Remember Lot’s wife” is not about ancient history—it’s about the condition of our hearts right now.

  1. Don’t cling to what God is calling you to leave.

Whether it’s a toxic relationship, a harmful habit, or a mindset rooted in fear, holding on will only hinder your freedom.

  1. Trust God’s future more than your past.

The unknown can be scary, but God’s promises are always better than the comfort of familiar chains.

  1. Guard against spiritual complacency.

It’s easy to start strong in faith but drift back toward old patterns. Keep your eyes fixed forward, on Christ.

Living With a Forward Focus

Lot’s wife teaches us that obedience is not just about starting the journey—it’s about finishing it with our hearts fully surrendered. The Christian walk is a forward-moving call. Paul echoes this in Philippians 3:13-14: “Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal…”


Reflection Question:

What “Sodom” in your life is God asking you to leave behind without looking back?


(In my humble opinion, I think God used fire to destroy Sodom because the city was filled with individuals who had aids. Anyway, just something to think about.)

Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

The Art of Walmart Speed Shopping:

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Let’s be honest, shopping at Walmart can feel like running a marathon you didn’t train for, except the finish line is a self-checkout machine that keeps yelling, “Please place item in the bagging area.” But fear not, my fellow deal-seekers. I’ve cracked the code for the most efficient (and slightly ridiculous) way to conquer Walmart like a pro (or your local store).

Step 1: The Parking Lot Power Play
Forget circling for the “perfect” spot. Park near the cart return. Why? Because after your shopping sprint, you’ll thank yourself for not dragging a cart across three zip codes. Bonus: You can use the cart return as a landmark when you inevitably forget where you parked.

Step 2: The Cart Selection Olympics
Test your cart before committing. Push it three feet. If it wobbles like a shopping cart on roller skates, ditch it. A squeaky wheel is fine—it’s basically your theme song, but a rogue wheel will ruin your speed record.

Step 3: The Aisle Assassin Strategy
Walmart aisles are like rivers—flow with the current, don’t fight it. If you see a cluster of people debating which brand of peanut butter is “more organic,” execute a swift U-turn and circle back later. Efficiency is about momentum, not peanut purity.

Step 4: The Ninja Grab-and-Go
Know your list. Memorize it. Commit it to your soul. This is not the time for “browsing.” You’re here for milk, bread, and maybe that suspiciously cheap throw blanket you didn’t know you needed.

Step 5: The Checkout Gauntlet
Self-checkout is faster—if you’re ready. Bag like a Tetris champion. Scan like you’re defusing a bomb. And for the love of efficiency, don’t be the person who realizes they forgot eggs after paying.

Step 6: The Grand Exit
Leave with purpose. Don’t get distracted by the clearance aisle on your way out. That’s how “just a quick trip” turns into “I now own a karaoke machine and a 3-foot inflatable flamingo.”

Final Pro Tip:

If you really want to shop at Walmart like a legend, go at 7 a.m. on a Tuesday. The aisles are empty, the shelves are stocked, and the only other shoppers are retirees who will absolutely beat you to the last rotisserie chicken.


You may be thinking Geez, Mark. What does Walmart shopping have to do with the kingdom of God? A lot, really. Our world is telling us, through several media outlets, to buy more. To drive the latest model. To wear the latest fashion, and so on. Do you realize that when you see those “so-called famous people” advertising something, they most likely were given those things to generate sales? Because people think they will be happier with more of the same items that the people they idolize have.

“Fill your shopping cart,” they yell at us. “Get the latest phone, the biggest TV, the coolest car. Can’t afford it? No problem. Put it on credit. Come on, you work hard. You deserve it!” The debt of Americans was 18.3 trillion dollars in the second quarter of 2025! Some are so deep in debt that they cannot afford to be generous. That is sad.

There is a huge difference between a “need” and a “want”. Something I tried to teach my children starting when they were young. I’ll admit, the way items are displayed in the store makes it difficult not to impulse buy. Or to purchase more than only the items on your shopping list, but we must try to resist the temptation. Learn to “tune out” the lies the advertisers tell us. Instead, ask God to help us and to guide us. To help us to “Just say No,” as if shopping has become a drug, and in many ways, it has. Focusing on God can help us “break the habit,” so that we can do our shopping and still be a good steward of what He has given us, being confident that He knows what we have need of (Mat. 6:8) and will provide those things.

Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

Understanding the Fear of the Funnel

Tornadoes are among nature’s most awe-inspiring — and terrifying — phenomena. They can appear suddenly, roar with unimaginable force, and leave behind a trail of destruction that changes lives in minutes. While some people are fascinated by them, for many, the fear runs deep. Here’s why tornadoes have such a powerful grip on our emotions.

1. The Sheer Unpredictability
Unlike hurricanes, which can be tracked for days, tornadoes often form with little warning. Even with modern radar, the time between a tornado warning and impact can be just minutes. This unpredictability leaves people feeling powerless, heightening anxiety.

2. The Devastating Power
A strong tornado can level entire neighborhoods, uproot trees, and hurl vehicles like toys. The Enhanced Fujita (EF) scale measures wind speeds that can exceed 200 mph — enough to turn everyday objects into deadly projectiles. The sheer force is a reminder of how fragile human structures can be.

3. The Sensory Overload
Survivors often describe the sound of a tornado as a deafening roar, like a freight train bearing down. The dark, swirling clouds, flashes of lightning, and sudden drop in air pressure create an intense sensory experience that can be overwhelming and traumatic.

4. The Emotional Toll of Past Events
For those who have lived through a tornado — or know someone who has — the fear is often rooted in personal experience. The loss of homes, livelihoods, or loved ones can leave lasting emotional scars, sometimes leading to lilapsophobia, the specific fear of tornadoes and severe storms.

5. The Feeling of Helplessness
Even with preparation, there’s only so much one can do when a tornado is on the way. The idea that safety depends on being in the right place at the right time — often in a small shelter or basement — can make people feel trapped and vulnerable.



At the time of this writing, we had a tornado touch down close to our house, sort of. If you look at the included image, you will see the green area that represents where the tornado made human contact. The white arrow points to a small white dot, which is where our house is. The distance between the two is only about two and a half miles. Which, in the realm of tornadoes, that’s not even considered a “close call!”

I grew up not far from that white dot, so you might say I grew up with tornadoes. I have never seen one, but I have seen the sky right before one hits. During the daytime, or if there is lightning, you can see this eerie aqua-green color. I have only seen the sky turn that color during a tornado. Fear can easily set in. I am fascinated by them and all of the stories that come along with them, but I do respect them and their power, and I take cover. Wind is scary. It is loud, noisy, and can evoke concern, but it is just wind. The devil is like wind in some ways: loud, noisy, and he tries to evoke fear because fear is debilitating!

My way of dealing with them is to turn my fear and concern over to God and let him help me. The same goes for any storm that may come my way in life. When the weatherman says, “There is a chance for the outbreak of tornadoes,” I start praying, asking God to divert or minimize the storm, and to protect us, and the home, car, and other belongings He has provided to us.  I know of other believers who are praying as well. So far, the God who loves us so much has answered each time.

People fear “storms of life” for many of the same reasons they fear tornadoes. You can’t stop them, change them by worrying about them. Jesus said in John 16:33, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” And remember, He is also the one who said, “Peace be still!” in Mark 4:39.

Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

How Much per Gallon?

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It’s hard to miss the sting of higher gas prices. Every time we fill up, the numbers climb faster than we’d like, and for many, that extra cost means cutting back elsewhere. While the economic impact is real, there’s also a deeper, spiritual layer worth exploring.


1. The Test of Trust

When expenses rise, our first instinct is often anxiety. We start calculating, worrying, and wondering how we’ll make ends meet. Yet Scripture reminds us that our ultimate security isn’t in our bank accounts, but in God’s provision. Rising gas prices can become a modern-day test of trust—an opportunity to lean into the truth that “my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of His glory in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:19).


2. The Call to Contentment

Higher costs can tempt us to grumble or compare our situation to others. But contentment isn’t about having everything we want—it’s about recognizing that what we have is enough for today. This season can be a reminder to simplify, to be grateful for the transportation we do have, and to see every mile as a gift rather than a given.


3. The Invitation to Compassion

When prices rise, those already struggling feel it the most. As followers of Christ, we’re called to notice and respond. Maybe that means offering a ride to a neighbor, helping someone cover their commute, or simply listening to their concerns without judgment. In doing so, we reflect the heart of Jesus, who always moved toward those in need.


4. The Shift in Perspective

Gas prices may be out of our control, but our perspective isn’t. We can choose to see this moment not as an inconvenience alone, but as a spiritual checkpoint—asking ourselves: Am I trusting God with my daily needs? Am I using my resources to bless others? Am I letting gratitude outweigh frustration?


Final Thought:

The numbers on the pump may keep changing, but God’s faithfulness doesn’t. If we let it, even something as ordinary as filling our tank can become a moment of worship, trust, and generosity.


Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

Don’t Jump

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I was attending a retreat many years ago. I was a young man at the time and preparing to enter the ministry. During our free time on Saturday afternoon, I went for a hike. The trail took me to the top of a cliff that overlooked some woods below and, further out, the lake.

As I was admiring the beauty of it all, I suddenly heard a voice in my head that said, “If you have so much faith in God and trust him so much, then take a step off this cliff. God will save you” Honestly, it scared me. I wanted to do it to prove I believed in God and by how much.

I inched forward, making my way closer to the edge, and I raised one foot off the ground. I hesitated, but I almost did it. Then I thought that’s nuts! I felt bad as I made my way back down to the retreat center, as if I had failed God.

When I entered my cabin, I saw my friend, Brian. He noticed the strange look on my face and asked, “What’s wrong?” I didn’t want to admit what I had done, but he kept insisting I share with him, so I told him what had happened. Then he told me one of the most profound statements (Steve) I have ever heard. He said, “Mark, God does the supernatural only when the supernatural is needed!” I have never forgotten those words. In short, I would have gotten hurt if not killed, and I’m sure that would have pleased the devil a lot.

Brian’s words are true, and you can see that when you read the Bible. Like when the Israelites walked across the Red Sea on dry ground to escape Pharaoh. (Exo. 14:29) Or when Phillip was transported to another city after baptizing the eunuch. (Acts 8:39) And don’t forget when Jesus calmed the storm by speaking to it. (Mark 4:35-41)

Those were just a few of the supernatural things God did in the Bible. Also, Jesus warns us not to tempt God. In other words, don’t purposely put yourself in a situation tempting God or “testing” God to do something.

The scripture “Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God” is found in Deuteronomy 6:16. In the context of the New Testament, this verse is referenced in Mathew 4:7, where Jesus responds to the devil during His temptation, emphasizing the importance of not testing God. This principle is crucial for believers, as it teaches that true faith does not require testing or proving God’s existence but rather trusting in His divine authority and promises. (Source: Bible Hub.)

God will take care of you. Consider Psalms 91. Trust him but also use wisdom and common sense when walking with your God.

Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.

Life on the Side of the Road

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When I was working and living in the Chicago area, I was away from my family. So, I would periodically call my father to check in with him. He was always up to something, so there was never a dull moment.

During one such phone visit, he complained about having two flat tires in a one-month period of time. I laughed, and he wanted to know why I was laughing. Truthfully, he got a little upset. I said, “Dad, I’m sorry you have had to deal with that, but honestly, I’m not surprised.” “Why is that?” he responded. “Because when you drive, you are always looking for a new fishing spot or reminiscing about a large one that got away from that pond. Or you are watching for deer, or a hawk, or something. You are doing something other than keeping your eye on the road and driving! As a result, you are constantly driving on the side of the road or in the gutter where all of the trash, debris, and garbage is.” He didn’t like what I said, but it was the truth. The whole family and his friends who rode with him knew it.

I have observed how some people live. Instead of staying on the straight and narrow, in their lane, they meander off the path. They believe they can live for God and still do the things that other people do who are not yet Christ followers. As a result, they fall “flat,” get hurt, and are frustrated with how their life is going. They are up one minute and down the next.

You probably know someone like this, or perhaps this is you. If it is you, know this: God knows, and He cares very much. One thing that would help is spending more time with the one who made you and understands you. You do that by talking to God as if he is your friend because He is, and reading his word, the Bible. There, you will learn about human nature and the enemy who wants you to fail. He’s the one who puts debris, nails, so to speak, and other things in your path to hurt and keep you down. “Life” on the side of the road is not fun! Better to do life with the One who is rooting you on, and that is God.

“In their hearts, humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” – Proverbs 16:9

“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” – Proverbs 16:3

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Prov. 3:5-6 (NIV)

 Copyright © 2026 Mark Brady. All rights reserved.