Stiff Love

July 6, 2026July 6, 2026 / Mark Brady / 2 Comments

Under the flickering fluorescent lights of Habitat Outlet, two manikins stood frozen in the Men’s Casual Wear section—because, well, they had no choice.

Chad Manikin, dressed in an urban-looking outfit, cleared his nonexistent throat. “Hey… uh… Brenda? You look especially glossy today.” Brenda, wearing a pink sweater and a skirt, and the permanent expression of someone who just smelled expired yogurt, replied, “Thanks, Chad. I got dusted by the night crew. Industrial-strength Swiffer. Big day.”

Chad shifted his entire torso because his head couldn’t turn. “So, uh… I was thinking… maybe you and I could go out sometime? You know… a date.” Brenda blinked zero times. “A date. Chad, we don’t move very quickly.” “I know,” he said proudly. “But I’m willing to try.”

A nearby toddler poked Chad’s shoe, causing him to wobble dangerously. Brenda gasped. “Careful! You almost fell into the Clearance Bin. No one comes back from there.” “That’s exactly why I want to live life to the fullest,” Chad said. “I don’t want to spend eternity staring at cargo shorts. I want to stare at cargo shorts… with you.”

Brenda’s plastic heart would’ve fluttered if she had one. “Where would we even go?” “I was thinking the food court. Maybe split a pretzel. Watch the humans argue about coupons. Real romantic stuff.” Brenda paused. “Chad… that actually sounds… kind of perfect.”

Just then, the store intercom crackled: “Attention shoppers: We will be closing in five minutes. All unattended children will be given an espresso and a puppy.”

Chad straightened proudly. “So… is that a yes?” Brenda smiled the same molded smile she always had. “Yes, Chad. Let’s go on that date. But you’re carrying the pretzel. My arm’s been stuck in a sassy pose since 2014.” Chad beamed. “Anything for you.” And so, under the dimming lights of Habitat Outlet, two manikins found love—immobile, unblinking, and deeply committed to each other’s warranties.

Kingdom Investing

June 26, 2026May 13, 2026 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Young student and older woman talking with notebooks and coffee at a wooden table in a coffee shop — Image generated via AI.

April and I had the privilege of having a conversation with a five-year-old, or as he would say, “five and a half,” the other day at church. His mother had posted on Facebook pics and videos of him playing baseball. He’s good!

We were complimenting him on how well he could play. He said, “I know.” That is when he invited us to his next game. “I’m playing Monday night. In Bixby!” he said with excitement in his voice. I was surprised one of his age would be able to communicate that information so well.

Later that day, April and I were trying to see how we could arrange our time in order to make the game. I texted his mother and got the address, the time, and the field number in the sports megaplex. I told April, “We have to go. It will mean a lot to him and be a small investment in his future that could last a lifetime.” We did go, and sure enough, he played well, and his team won, like 14 to 4 over the other team.

You don’t get inventions in the mail with investment opportunities into people’s lives; you have to look for them.

Earthly investing grows what you can keep for a lifetime. Kingdom investing grows what you can keep for eternity. Scripture consistently contrasts these two paths—not to condemn wise financial stewardship, but to show that only one investment has a guaranteed, everlasting return.

Earthly investing is wise and often encouraged in Scripture, but it is limited. Build resources for this life. Proverbs praises diligence, planning, and wise stewardship.

Proverbs 21:5 — “The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance…”
Proverbs 13:11 — “Whoever gathers money little by little makes it grow.”

These verses affirm that earthly investing can be good, responsible, and God‑honoring. Earthly wealth is fragile.

Proverbs 23:5 — “Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone…”
Ecclesiastes 5:10 — Wealth never fully satisfies.

No matter how successful, earthly investments end at death.

1 Timothy 6:7 — “We brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it.”

Earthly investing is useful, but it cannot outlast mortality.

Kingdom investing is about aligning your resources with God’s eternal purposes. Advance God’s mission and transform lives. Jesus frames this as storing treasure in heaven.

Matthew 6:19–20 — “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth… but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven.”

Kingdom investment is about people, justice, mercy, discipleship, and love.

Mark 10:29–30 — Jesus promises that sacrifices made for the Kingdom will be repaid “a hundredfold.”
1 Corinthians 15:58 — “Your labor in the Lord is not in vain.”

Kingdom investments never lose value. Kingdom fruit continues beyond your lifetime.

2 Corinthians 4:18 — “What is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”
Galatians 6:8 — “Whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.”

Kingdom investing is measured in transformed hearts, not financial charts.

Earthly investing is about accumulating what you cannot keep. Kingdom investing is about sowing what you cannot lose. Jesus never condemns wise financial planning—but He insists that the greatest investment is the one that outlasts the world itself.

Which part of your life, time, talent, or treasure—do you feel God nudging you to invest more intentionally in His Kingdom?

How Many Times do I Have to Say It?

June 16, 2026April 30, 2026 / Mark Brady / 1 Comment

Fiery glowing heart shape floating in a warmly lit rustic cabin — Image generated via AI..

I did a favor for someone recently. The recipient acted as if they didn’t even notice. They never said, “Thank you.” That bothered me–a lot. So, after a few days, I asked them about the situation. I asked them, “Why didn’t you say thank you?” Their reply shocked me. They responded by asking, “How many times do I have to say it?”

I wanted to say, “How about 70 times 7?” That was Jesus’ response, though to a question about how many times to forgive someone. I couldn’t let it go. I wondered, does this person treat everyone like this? What about “Love thy neighbor?” Would you treat your neighbor that way? They do you a favor, and you don’t even acknowledge it?

The second part of the command to love thy neighbor is to love them as you love yourself. Well, what if a person doesn’t really love themselves? Does that hinder them in saying, “Thank you?” Because they don’t have a heart of gratitude? That would be a problem.

Perhaps they aren’t grateful for what Jesus did for them on the cross.
Maybe the issue is that they have done something they can’t forgive themselves for.
It could be something that happened to them by someone else, but they blame themselves.
Maybe they don’t feel they are worthy of forgiveness.

Whatever it is, it hinders them from having a heart of gratitude and, therefore, being grateful when others do something for them. I pray for them. I pray that whatever is hurting them, hindering them from having a heart of God, a heart of love, would be healed. That they would be able to say, “Thank you” whenever someone does something for them.

The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”
Mat. 12:31 (NIV)

The Hardest Decision

June 15, 2026June 5, 2026 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Person standing on city sidewalk holding illuminated Pizza Planet box — Image generated via AI.

Travis froze in the hallway, caught between two equally powerful gravitational forces: the smell of his favorite sausage, onion, and green pepper pizza drifting from inside the elevator, and the presence of the woman who had just stepped up beside him, radiant, calm, and, if he wasn’t imagining it, smiling at him. She had just stepped off the other elevator.

The elevator chimed. The doors began to slide shut.

Inside, on a small table someone had inexplicably left behind, sat the pizza box. His pizza box. One half of his order that he had waited forty minutes for and fantasized about during the entire elevator ride back down to the lobby, to ask the concierge where his wings were. When he accepted the order from the delivery guy, he was so hungry that he hadn’t noticed the wings were missing. The cheese still bubbled. The crust glistened. It was the kind of pizza that made grown men rethink their priorities.

But then there was her.

She stood just outside the elevator, dark hair put up for an evening out on the town, eyes warm and curious. She wasn’t just beautiful; she had that presence that made the world feel a little quieter, a little more intentional. She looked at him like she was about to say something. Maybe ask something. Maybe invite something.

The elevator doors narrowed to a slit.

Pizza.

Woman.

Pizza.

Woman.

His soul split cleanly in half.

In the final second, Travis made his choice.

He stepped forward, not into the elevator, but toward her.

The doors sealed shut behind him with a soft ding, carrying his beloved pizza away forever.

He exhaled, half‑heartbroken, half‑hopeful.

She tilted her head. “You okay?”

He nodded. “Yeah. I think I just made the hardest decision of my life.”

She laughed, bright and musical. “Well… by the end of the night, I hope you will think it was worth it.”

Travis smiled, stomach growling in protest. “I really hope so, too.”

And as they walked through the lobby together, he realized something surprising. For the first time in his life, he didn’t miss pizza.

Where’s the Beef? Finding Substance in a World of Spiritual Fast Food vs. Soul Food

June 9, 2026May 5, 2026 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Cheeseburger with lettuce, cheddar cheese, ketchup, French fries, and a glass of water — Image generated via AI.

The question “Where’s the beef?” started as a joke, but it’s become a surprisingly sharp spiritual mirror. In a world full of noise, slogans, and surface‑level inspiration, it’s fair to ask whether the things we consume—mentally, emotionally, spiritually—actually nourish us.

Because let’s be honest: a lot of what passes for “spirituality” today is like a beautifully wrapped burger with almost nothing inside. It looks good, it photographs well, it might even go viral, but when you bite into it… there’s not much there.

So the question becomes: Where’s the substance? Where’s the depth? Where’s the nourishment for the soul?

The Hunger Beneath the Question

When someone asks, “Where’s the beef?” spiritually, they’re really saying:

I want something real
I want something that changes me
I want something that feeds the parts of me I don’t show the world
I want truth, not just aesthetics

That hunger is ancient. Every tradition, every culture, every seeker has felt it. It’s the inner tug that says, there must be more than this.

The Illusion of Fullness

Modern spirituality often gives us:

Pretty quotes without practice
Rituals without meaning
Community without connection
“Love and light” without honesty
Positivity that avoids pain instead of healing it

It’s like eating cotton candy when what you really need is a meal. Sweet, colorful, fun—but it dissolves the moment you touch it.

The Real Beef: Depth, Practice, Presence

Substance shows up in quieter places:

In the discipline of showing up for yourself when no one is watching
In the courage to face your own shadows
In the humility to admit you don’t have all the answers
In the stillness where you finally hear your own soul speak
In the compassion that costs you something

Spiritual “beef” isn’t flashy. It’s not always Instagrammable. It’s the slow-cooked stuff—patience, integrity, forgiveness, truth-telling, inner work. It’s the meal that actually fills you.

How to Tell If Something Has Substance

Does it make you more grounded?
Does it make you more honest?
Does it make you more compassionate?
Does it help you grow, not just feel good?
Does it stay with you after the moment passes?

If the answer is yes, you’ve found something worth keeping.

The Spiritual Twist: The Beef Might Be Inside You

Here’s the part people don’t always want to hear:
Sometimes the question isn’t “Where’s the beef out there?”
It’s “Where’s the beef in me?”

Am I showing up with depth?
Am I living what I say I believe?
Am I nourishing others, or just decorating my life with spiritual language?
Am I feeding my soul, or just scrolling for inspiration?

The real substance often comes from the quiet, unglamorous work of becoming who God wants you to be. Do individuals see substance in me? Do they see the calm they desire but find it out of reach? Do they see God?

So… Where’s the Beef?

It’s in the spiritual practices that stretch you.
It’s in the truths of God’s word that challenge you.
It’s in the moments that humble you.
It’s in the love for others that costs you something.
It’s in the courage to be real in a world obsessed with appearances.

And most of all, it’s in the part of you that refuses to settle for a life that looks full but feels empty. Spending time with God is where the beef really is. Talking to him daily in real conversations. Sharing with him your concerns and your needs, even though He already knows them.

Spiritual Thermostat

January 6, 2026November 28, 2025 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Do you have a “spiritual thermostat” in your home? You probably have a regular thermostat, at least in America. Other than in the U.S., I’ve only lived in the Philippines for a few months, and we didn’t have one there on the wall, but the air conditioner we used had different settings on it.

So, what do I mean by a “spiritual thermostat?” Walking through our home today, I noticed an atmosphere of peace, joy, and love. It felt good and comfortable. I stopped long enough to think about it and figure out, “Why?”

I believe I have been open and honest about my struggle of being married for a second time. Learning to believe and trust someone can be difficult. Honest about how I have fought my fears concerning April and if I could trust her true motives. Needless to say, I have had to talk to God about it, like, a lot! I have complained, cried out, begged, and asked for answers and His help.

God heard me, and in His timing, He answered me. He has helped me be a spiritual leader in our home. He has helped me to believe April and has helped me trust her. He has also given me the strength and wisdom to be quiet and, when needed, to walk away. The result is that the “spiritual thermostat” has been adjusted and is now set to where it should be.

It doesn’t matter if April helps or not. It is my responsibility to do what is required or expected of me to lead us spiritually. I am thankful for God and his help. I like walking around the house feeling peace, joy, and love. And the greatest of those is love.

“But the fruit produced by the Holy Spirit within you is divine love in all its varied expressions: joy that overflows, peace that subdues, patience that endures, kindness in action, a life full of virtue, faith that prevails, gentleness of heart, and strength of spirit. Never set the law above these qualities, for they are meant to be limitless.” This passage emphasizes the importance of spiritual qualities such as love, joy, and peace, which are meant to be limitless and transformative in our lives. Gal. 5:22-23 (TPT)

The Purpose of Christmas

December 12, 2025November 15, 2025 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

When December rolls around, it’s easy to get swept up in the glittering lights, festive music, and the rush of holiday shopping. While these traditions bring joy and togetherness, the true meaning of Christmas runs much deeper—it’s about love, hope, and the gift of presence over presents.

At its heart, Christmas is a celebration of light breaking into darkness. For Christians, it marks the birth of Jesus Christ, a moment that symbolizes God’s love and the promise of redemption. But even beyond faith traditions, the season carries a universal message: kindness, generosity, and connection matter more than material things.

Christmas invites us to show love in tangible ways—through compassion, forgiveness, and time spent with those who matter most. It’s a reminder that relationships are the real treasures of life.

The story of Christmas is one of hope against all odds. Whether you’re facing personal challenges or global uncertainty, the season whispers that brighter days are ahead.

Gift-giving is beautiful when it reflects thoughtfulness rather than obligation. Sometimes the most meaningful gifts are not bought—they’re shared moments, heartfelt words, or acts of service.

Amid the noise, Christmas offers a chance to slow down, reflect on the year, and realign with what truly matters. It’s a season to let go of grudges and embrace peace.

The true meaning of Christmas isn’t meant to fade when the decorations come down. Carrying its spirit into everyday life—through kindness, gratitude, and empathy—can transform not just the season, but the entire year.

In the end, Christmas is less about what’s under the tree and more about who’s around it. It’s about hearts opening, hands giving, and hope shining brightly, and of course, God’s love in motion that forgives the sins of the world through Jesus.

(I have been experimenting with AI. A good portion of this blog post was written via AI.)

Heroes of the Faith

October 3, 2025October 3, 2025 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

Moses, Abraham, Joshua, David, Elijah, and many more. They could all be counted as “Heroes of the Faith.” But today, I would have to add another name to that list. A true woman of God, Margie McQueen. I sat and cried, and laughed a little, as we celebrated her life today. A life lived so well that she had to have heard Jesus say, “Well done, Margie, and welcome home.”

How do I know she heard those words? There is no doubt that Margie loved God and people. Many spoke loving words about how she had touched their lives and the lives of their families. She was a prayer warrior to say the least. She was a prophetess as God would show her things while in prayer, sometimes well before they came to pass. Many times, in a church service, she would be used of God to exhort, comfort, and encourage the flock. She definitely had and operated in the spiritual gifts of the Holy Spirit, which are still operating in our days if we will only listen and be willing to be used of God. (1 Corinthians Chapters 12 & 14)

As others shared their favorite “Margie” moments, I couldn’t help but remember my own. When I was thirteen, the Carbondale Assembly of God church in Tulsa, Oklahoma, hired me to mow the lawn. Margie was the pastor’s wife at the time. The property sat on ten acres and had a lot of grass, and Oklahoma summers can get extremely hot.

The pastor’s parsonage’s kitchen window faced the big front lawn of the church. I would be mowing and sweating. Margie would see me, and at times, would bring out the best chocolate shakes I have ever had, and probably ever will! They were so delicious and refreshing and full of love. In full confession, after the first shake, whether I knew if she was home or not, or watching me or not, when I was close to that kitchen window, I wiped my brow and acted as if I couldn’t make it in the heat unless I had a chocolate shake. Sometimes it worked, but not every time.

Thank you again, Margie, for the chocolate shakes, but more importantly for the love. And for showing all of us who were watching how to be a servant of the living God. Your daughter, Jeanie, said you liked to sparkle. Perhaps tonight, if I am outside, I will look up and smile as you do in heaven.

If God assigns me to mow grass in heaven, I’m going to ask to mow your lawn, Margie, and look for you smiling in your kitchen window. I know I thanked you for the shakes back then, but I don’t recall saying this when you were among us. “I love you, too, Margie.”

Are You Being Goaded?

September 30, 2025September 27, 2025 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

People come to God in different ways. I had a coworker who was seeking God. He traveled to the Grand Canyon and declared, “There must be a God!” Sitting on the rim, he accepted God’s gift of salvation, had his sins forgiven, and began his walk with God. Others may be moved by a situation or circumstance that takes place in life.

Saul, from the Bible, was highly educated. He had heard Jesus’ claims and teachings, as it was always a popular topic of discussion. Why? Because Jesus promoted living a life of love. This went against the culture of the day, and to this day! Saul was there when Stephen was martyred. He heard Stephen’s speech and saw his face as it glowed there at the end of his life, and it messed with him severely! Saul was goaded. (Acts 6:8 – 7:60)

Saul eventually accepted Jesus Christ. During his conversion:

And Saul said, Who are You, Lord? And He said, I am Jesus, Whom you are persecuting. It is dangerous and it will turn out badly for you to keep kicking against the goad [to offer vain and perilous resistance]. Acts 9:5 (AMPC)

Goad means – provoke or annoy (someone) so as to stimulate an action or reaction.

More recently, Jimmy Kimmel got teary-eyed when he talked about Erika Kirk forgiving the man who killed her husband. Jimmy, too, is highly educated. He lives a very different life from the one Charlie did, and Erika Kirk still does. I believe Jimmy Kimmel is starting to feel some goads. Erika’s willingness to forgive is messing with his mind. He doesn’t understand how she can do that because it’s the way of love.

Acts of selfless love penetrate one’s mind and spirit.

I guarantee you, there are a lot of individuals walking all around us who are struggling with the message and lifestyle of Jesus Christ and of those who follow him. The Holy Spirit is drawing them quietly to God. That is one of his duties. He convicts men of their sins and shows them they need forgiveness in order to have real life.

If you are related to an individual going through this, or you work with, or live near, pray for them. Pray they will stop fighting against the goads and surrender their will to God’s. Their future and where they spend eternity depend on it. If it is you, then do the right thing and live.

Here’s the Problem

September 23, 2025August 14, 2025 / Mark Brady / Leave a comment

The person who refuses to love doesn’t know the first thing about God, because God is love—so you can’t know him if you don’t love. 1 John 4:8

That scripture also indicates that if you don’t know God, then you will struggle to trust him. If you are having difficulty trusting him, then you will be prone to lean upon your own understanding.

^5-12Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don’t try to figure out everything on your own. Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; he’s the one who will keep you on track. Don’t assume that you know it all. Run to God! Run from evil! Your body will glow with health, your very bones will vibrate with life! Honor God with everything you own; give him the first and the best. Your barns will burst, your wine vats will brim over. But don’t, dear friend, resent God’s discipline; don’t sulk under his loving correction. It’s the child he loves that God corrects; a father’s delight is behind all this. Prov. 3:5-12 (MSG)

It’s that first step of faith that we are unsure of. Like a child just learning to walk. They want to walk, in truth, they want to run, because running can put a smile on your face. Unless, of course, you are running from danger. But our faith journey starts with one step, and when we see we are still standing, we are then willing to take the next one.

The same goes with God! You have to take that first step. In fact, you already have. You had faith that He existed and that He sent His Son, Jesus, to die for your sins. So now take the second step and trust him with something that is going on in your life. Then the third, and soon you will not simply find yourself walking with God but running! Usually, the runner is extremely confident in where they are going. But for us, we run with God and we are confident in Him!

That is why Paul said:

I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith! 2 Tim. 4:7 (NET)

In order to run, you have to first walk. In order to walk, you have to have knowledge that you can trust. To gain knowledge of God, you have to get to know him. You do that by reading his word and talking to him, and learning to love. Then you attend a church that teaches the word of God and promotes that you have a deep personal relationship with him. Doing so will put a smile on your face.