THE MEG

It’s painful to watch someone be controlled by “fear!” It can eat them alive, destroy their life, or worse, their faith. The Bible says the things you fear the most will come upon you. I witnessed that verse play out. A mother once shared what her worst fear was, and it actually came to pass almost with the exact details she shared.

But what if one’s “fear” affects others? What if their acting in “fear” caused a divide, a riff, in another family? That is what happened last week in our home. One of April’s friend’s “fears” affected me, and I displayed my anger concerning the matter. I thought it was silly, and I, in turn, decided I did not want to be around that person. Then April got mad. Fear is like a shark attack. Many times, sharks don’t just take one bite and then leave!

It took a couple of days, but we worked our way through it. And the thing is, God controlled things so their “fear” wouldn’t come to pass anyway. They forgot about God. They forgot to give their “fear” to Him. Some allow their fears to get to megalodon proportions!

F orgetting
E verything
A bout
R edemption

Redemption means: the action of saving or being saved from sin, error, or evil.

Fear can rise in anyone at any time. Some fear is healthy. For instance, having a fear or respect for a poisonous snake can keep you alive. But when you allow your “fears” to control your behavior or, perhaps worse, control others, then it is wrong! People get hurt, including the one who manifested the “fear” in the first place.

Remember to give any and all “fear” to God. Be honest with Him and tell Him what is bothering you. Then trust Him by remembering that you have been redeemed and that He can protect you from evil coming upon you.

The worst of my fears has come true,
    what I’ve dreaded most has happened. Job 3:25 (MSG)

 There’s no need to fear for I’m your God.
I’ll give you strength. I’ll help you.
    I’ll hold you steady, keep a firm grip on you. Isa. 41:10 (MSG)

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. 1 John 4:18 (NIV)

I sought the Lord, and he answered me;
    he delivered me from all my fears. Ps. 34:4 (NIV)

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Craig

I met Craig at a church called Redeeming Grace
Like he understood my “I don’t want to be here” face
I felt out of place and I smelled like beer
But he just shook my hand, said “I’m glad you’re here”
He said “we’ll all be judged”
But he was never judgemental
And even though my songs don’t belong in no hymnal,
He’d quote me my lyrics, slap me on the back,
Said “Man you’ve got a gift! How you write like that?”

I know, he sounds cool right?
Not your typical kid from Sunday School, right?
I still ain’t figured out church yet
But Craig, I get
Nah he can’t walk on water, turn the Napa Valley red
But he just might be tight with a man that did

Yeah he’s not the light of the world,
But I wish that mine was bright as his
Yeah he just might be tight with a man that is

You lose a record deal, all the perks fade fast
Dealership said, “We’re going to need to get that mini-van back”
So we were down on one car
And broke as I felt,
My wife and six kids with only five seat belts
I needed help but couldn’t admit, I was strong
Said, “Craig, it’s all good”
But he knew it all wasn’t
A “Hey man I’m praying for you” would’ve been sufficient but nah
He took roadside assistance to a
Whole other level, to sacrificial heights

Showed up at the ballpark after my son’s game one night
In two cars, with his wife Barb watching from the other
Said “What in the world are y’all doing here, brother?”
He just laughed inside that old Chrysler Town and Country van
With the keys, and a title, and a pen in his hand
Said “Man, all you got to do is sign and it’s yours”
I said “No, no way”
But he wouldn’t take “No” for an answer
Said “Please do,
Somebody did this for me once, just let me do this for you”
We argued about it for a little while
Then I teared up, and Craig smiled

I know, he sounds cool right?
Not your typical kid from Sunday School, right?
Nah he can’t walk on water, turn the Napa Valley red
But he just might be tight with a man that did
Yeah he’s not the light of the world,
But I wish that mine was bright as his
Yeah he just might be tight with a man that is

My pride was way too ashamed to be adequately grateful at the moment
But I signed the dotted line, and I drove the kids home
And when the cop pulled up beside us
At the light, they didn’t have to duck
Because thanks to Craig
They were all buckled up

“Craig” by songwriter: Walker Hayes.