The Road Without Directions

Empty multi-lane highway with metal overhead gantries in a dry, mountainous desert area
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There’s a moment on every spiritual path when you realize you’ve been “driving to New York without a map.” You know you’re headed somewhere meaningful, somewhere that feels like destiny, but the route is foggy, the signs are confusing, and the GPS inside your heart keeps recalculating. And honestly, that’s what makes the journey sacred.

Imagine getting in your car in Tulsa, turning the key, and deciding, I’m going to New York.
No map.
No GPS.
No itinerary.
Just a sense that New York is where you’re meant to be.

When I was a young man, God asked me to give up a guaranteed paycheck, to say goodbye to family and friends, and to travel 1,641 miles from home to be used of Him as he saw fit. Nothing was sure, but His call on my life.

At first, it feels exciting. You’re fueled by obedience and possibility. But after a few hours, the uncertainty creeps in. You start wondering: Am I even going the right way? What if I’m completely lost? What if I miss something important?

That’s the spiritual journey in a nutshell. We feel the pull toward growth, healing, purpose, or transformation, but the path isn’t laid out like a highway. It’s more like a series of unmarked backroads that only make sense in hindsight.

If life handed you a perfect map, you’d follow it mechanically. You’d never discover the hidden towns, the unexpected detours, the strangers who become guides, or the quiet moments that reshape you. A map would give you certainty, but it would steal your becoming. Spiritual growth isn’t about arriving quickly. It’s about learning to trust the spiritual compass that doesn’t shout directions but whispers them. You may not know the whole route, but you always know the next mile.

When you drive without a map, you pay attention differently. You notice the sky, the road, the way the light changes. You become present. You become receptive. You become humble enough to ask for guidance and brave enough to keep going even when the path bends. That’s the spiritual life: a journey where clarity comes in pieces, courage comes in waves, and faith becomes the fuel that keeps you moving.

Reaching New York is wonderful, but the real transformation happened somewhere in the middle of Kansas, or on a quiet stretch of highway in Missouri, or during a moment of doubt that taught you to trust God. You don’t grow when you arrive. You grow on the way. For me, it was upstate New York. With each mile I traveled, my faith grew. I didn’t know how things would go, but I knew in my spirit it would be okay.


“Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” (Ps. 119:105) God doesn’t always light the whole road—just the next step. But His Word is enough to keep you moving forward.

“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’” (Isa. 30:21) This is God’s promise of personal, moment‑by‑moment direction.

“He refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake.” (Ps. 23:3) God doesn’t just guide you—He guides you for His glory and your good.

“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” (Ps. 32:8) God doesn’t just point—He personally instructs and watches over you.

“The steps of a man are established by the Lord, when he delights in his way.” (Ps. 37:23) Your steps are not random; God establishes them.

“You make known to me the path of life…” (Ps. 16:11) God doesn’t just guide you through life—He guides you into life.

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Two Things that Make Me Cry

Yes, I still own a “Man Card”!  Stopping and asking for directions doesn’t make me any less of a man.  In fact, it demonstrates I don’t have an issue with pride.  So there!  LOL  Admitting I cry doesn’t make me any less of a man either.  So what are the two things that will almost guarantee I will reach for a tissue?

  1. When I begin thinking about God’s goodness, and blessings to me and my wife I get misty eyed.  Like the other day we received three unexpected checks in the mail.  They really helped us out, and before you ask me for a loan they went to pay off some debt.  They were nice checks.  When I opened the envelopes and saw them I sat down and cried.

    A few weeks ago I wrote about sowing into someone else’s financial needs.  I helped a friend work on his condo.  He offered to pay me and I wanted to accept the money, but God whispered, “No.  Sow into their need.”  They didn’t need to spend any more on the condo.

    God has established certain universal laws, and one of them is “sowing and reaping”.  If you sow, give time or money it doesn’t always come back to you in the same form you gave it, but it does come back.  But you have to be willing to give without expecting it to come back, which has to do with the attitude of your heart.

  2. The other thing that gets my eyes to leaking is sensing the presence of God.  When his Spirit comes over me and hovers, and I know I am in the company of God it over whelms me.  To think, the God of the universe wants to spend time with me.  I can’t see him, but I know He is there.  I can’t see the wind, but I know when it blows.  Lately, when this happens, I have been saying, “Come a little closer, stay a little longer.  I can’t get enough of you.”

Okay, in full disclosure those are the words to a new worship song I just discovered the other day.  “Just Like Heaven” by Brandon Lake.  When I hear this song on the radio it ushers me into an attitude of worship.  Expressing my love and admiration to God for who He is, for his holiness.  Worship, does a lot for us, even though we are giving it to God.

So yes, there are times I cry, but they are good tears not bad ones that flow out because of hurt, or pain.  Tears are a release of emotion, and God gave us that capability, and I am so grateful He did.  I can’t imagine what would happen if I didn’t cry.  I’m no expert in biology, but I have a feeling my emotion would come out somewhere, somehow, in some form.  I choose tears.

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