Have you ever met someone for the very first time, and you immediately like them? They are usually smiling, relaxed, mild mannered, and you just begin to match their level of gel. You find yourself feeling like they value you, and they aren’t in a hurry to get away from you. As if in that very moment, you are the only thing and one that matters.
I believe Jesus was just that kind of person. I think this is why he appealed to men, women, some high ranking officials, sinners and children. Honestly, the only ones that he didn’t appeal to were the ones who felt as if his way of living threatened their livelihood, or power.
It was this kind of appeal that gave him the ability to talk about “love”, “forgiveness”, and “the Kingdom of God”. Because of how he made them feel they listened! And many times they responded positively. Would we get the same results if we drew people toward us as he did? That should be the goal anyway.
It was Paul who said, “Follow me as I follow Christ.” (1 Cor.11:1) Paul obviously recognized this about Jesus and strived to imitate him. Three practical steps to living this kind of life:
- See the people. Be observant to the people around you while being attentive to the Holy Spirit who may prompt you to speak to them.
- .See the need in their life. You do this step by listening to them. Not just talking about yourself. It’s not always about you!
- .See the path they should take to find God. Whether they need forgiveness, healing, or some other type of ministry, we should then lead them along that path.
Ask God to help you declutter your own life so you will have the time to spend with people. One thing I learned from my father is this; spending time with people is a gift. We should be generous.”
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Good strategies, Mark. And a little bit challenging these days. With all the fear and social distancing, connecting with people may take some creativity. 😉
True, but being creative, on how to talk to people during these trying times, should be nothing for those who are made in the image of God. He is the most creative one I know. Blessings